Today it happened! WooHoo! I was completely excited today. I earned the high five from one of my learners. On the 20th of August, I noted that one single learner had not given me a high five, and in fact that she refused to give me a high five. Well today, after working really hard all period on rational exponent problems, and rocking the heck out of the problems, she gave me a five at the end of class.
She had a giant grin on her face, she was excited because she was making connections and understanding, and she was into it. I finally earned the five because she realized I was not leading them along, I was not tormenting them by asking questions all the time, they were learning BECAUSE I was asking questions all the time.
I also had a different learner walk in and tell me she was reading my blog and realized the high fives were a placebo to make them feel good about math. I smiled, told her yes, and high fived her. She laughed.
Did we do content today? Absolutely. Algebra 2 was rocking the rational exponents. AP Stats was starting conditional and marginal distributions. But today was awesome because of the relationships I am building with my learners.
It was a GREAT day.